My LOVE, My WAY

Sunday, May 15, 2011

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两个人在一起久了，好多年。感情已经很稳定、彼此了解、不会分手，觉得已经是家人、是亲人了...一个眼神，一个微小的动作，都知道对方在想什么、要做什么，知道这辈子就是他了。一切都顺理成章的进行着，就等着毕业、工作、结婚。

      可并不能因为这样的稳定，而忽略了生活上的细节，从而忽略了对方的感觉。就算再坚固的感情，也会受伤、也会被别人趁虚而入的。所以，我们要注意这些小节，因为生活就是由每个小节组成的。如果你不想分手，想一直走一辈子。那么，请注意以下这些：

      1、随时能联系到彼此。因为生活学习工作的原因，两个人经常分开是难免的，而对现在的我们来说，手机应是我们最主要的联系工具。不要没事就关机，或者不带电话，电话没电要及时换电池、充电。我给你打电话，不是要监督你、检查你，而是要知道你平安，你现在很好。所以，请24小时开机，如果当时因为种种原因没有接电话，事后一定要马上打回来，主动说明原因。

       2、经常谈心，让彼此知道对方的想法。这一点是两个人长久相处最重要的一点。不沟通哪来的彼此了解，不了解怎么能形成默契。你也不用像做思想汇报一样的说自己的心理活动。就像聊天一样，说说自己身边发生的事，自己的想法，或者说说两个人之间的相处之道。谈恋爱谈恋爱，不交谈怎么恋爱？不要把什么都憋在心里，这样你憋得难受，我猜得也难受，女人本来就是爱胡思乱想的。往往很多事，你把它说出来，反而倒没事了。你什么都不说，只会没事变有事，甜蜜变伤心。

      3、吵架要发泄出来，不能隔夜。两个人在一起，吵架是避免不了的。但是希望两个人不要冷战，可以争吵，可以打架。让彼此都发泄出来，这样才不会生病。更不要隔夜，生气睡觉是最容易死人的，除非你是没心没肺的那种，躺下就着，一点事儿没有的。但最好还是当天解决，因为很多事往往越搁越难解决。

     4、互相尊重。不光说话要互相尊重，还要尊重彼此的思想、行为。尤其是在对方朋友面前，不要过分的显示你有多么牛，你一定要占上风，因为主角本来就不是你。不是说，你在他朋友面前，一定要给足他面子，贬低自己，那样他在朋友面前就会显得怎么怎么样，就是爱他、尊重他。而是说不要刻意的贬低他，显示自己，而是要互相捧着说，那样才会让别人觉得你们是互相尊重，感情平等的。

     5、不要跟异性朋友没完没了的联系。每个人都有异性朋友，这也不是什么不好的事情。反而能说明你这个人心理很健康。但是你的异性朋友不要太多，超过同性朋友更是有问题的。联系可以，但不要太过频繁。有这么一句话：“跟爱人吵架，跟陌生人说心里话。”你跟异性朋友永远是温柔的，心里话都说给她们。可是跟爱人却是冷漠的，惜字如金的，什么心里话都不说。那么你们的感情肯定经不起一点儿风浪，和平也只是暂时的，一旦对方受不了了，爆发了，那么你们肯定就完蛋了。

      6、不要吝啬你的嘴。两个人交往，甜言蜜语是应该的，这也是最增进感情的一种方式。不要因为在一起时间久了，觉得没必要说这些了，就吝啬自己的嘴，情话要经常说。三天没见就必须说想念，不想也得这么说。“不就是才一个月见不到吗？”这种话绝对不能说，太伤人心。

      7、态度决定一切。不要动不动就不耐烦、发脾气、乱吼。谁都有心情不好，谁都有不高兴的时候。但是你要跟对方说明原因，不要无缘无故的凶人。

      8、两个人吵架，不管是谁的错，必须有人先低头道歉，哄对方；而另一个人也必须很给面子的配合，迅速和好。

      我们长大了，不再像小时候那么单纯，一看就懂。这个世界上的诱惑也变多了，你不去招惹她，她会来倒贴你的。人越大，心思就越多。如果你不去努力维护你的感情，不去用心的对待你的另一半，那么再坚定地感情也会被摧毁的。

做到了这一些，难道就能够相守一辈子吗？
个人觉得，
最好都是别再有这些想发吧，
不然伤害最深的还是自己

Thursday, May 12, 2011

Oh Sushi!!

Oh yea,
it's my sem break again,
however,
I have just few days to enjoy as I'm going for my industrial training soon.
Time flew too fast,
I only have half year to go after my internship end,
and it's time,
to start the crazy FYP!
Hope we can complete it smoothly.
Aunt bought us some sushi's ingredients during Mother's Day.
and it's time for me to learn how to make sushi,oh,it's sushi!!!
Never thought that it's so easy to make.
Here are some of the steps while I'm making this cutie sushi,
not bad,
it tastes AWESOME!!
No need to cook lunch for today as I'd already made sushi, xD

1. Prepare all the ingredients like Japanese rice or so-called pearl rice,

roasted seaweed,carrots,sliced eggs,cucumber and mayonnaise.

2. Steam the rice at first so that it's softer like the usual rice that we ate.

3. Put the sushi mat on a clean table for hygienic purpose,

following by the roasted seaweed and the rice on it too.
It'll be tastier with mayonnaise applied =)

4. Following by the side ingredients which are carrots, cucumbers and eggs.
You can put the ingredients according to ur preferred choice.
*Cut them into slices so that you can easily having it.

5. Once all are applied,and it's rolling time!

*Press the whole role of sushi accordingly before rolling on,

as to prevent any drop out from the sushi.

6. Following by rolled it on!!! hee

*Pls dun rolled the sushi as what you all did when rolling normally,

the mat should placed on top as the pic shown so that sushi wont rolled up inside ^.^

7. Pressing the roll of sushi while you rolled it up on the same time.

The sushi's ingredients will stick 2gether.

*This is what I mean jz now which you cant roll the whole mat completely.

The upper part of the mat is appeared at outside while not inside.

8. Tadah, this is what shown after the sushi is been rolled!

*Pls dun put too much rice on it or else the outcome will be like what I'd did-the rice will drop out!

Arghh,NO choice, it's my first time doing it, pls dun blame me *hiak hiak hiak*

9. and Lastly,just cut the sushi roll into pieces and here is it-

It's ready to serve!! *wide big smile*

The taste are extremely tasty,no bluffing here!!

Go&Grab the ingredients and try yours now =)

It's really easy and with this simple few steps,

you can fulfill your sushi's satisfaction even at your home anytime you feel like to eat so much!

*Will Mr M. love to eat it too??? *wondering*

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Mr M.

突然有感而言，
就跑上来更新了 =）
Mr M.
你啊，
总是让我一时西欢到你不可自拔，
一时又会讨厌你到极点...
话说你应该知道是因何事吧？
你啊，
就是那么的急性子，
常常让我担心会惹毛你，
因为后果真的不是开玩笑的厉害，
为什么啊，
你不能再耐心一点点啊？
你就是欠缺了这点，
导致我真的会好讨厌，
虽然过后认错的还是我啦，哈哈!
有时，
因为明明就觉得自己没错，
突然被烧到真的好不甘心，
对不起，
我承认我的脾气也很暴躁，
我个人就是如果我认为我没错，
可却被怪回头来，
我的第一反应通常都是会生气，
原谅我的坏脾气，
也不能怪，
有时候我真的是笨到恐怖，
但我最希望的是，
你肯给多我点点耐心，
就点点好不好呀？
就好像有时候，
等待的当儿，
我知道好多时候，
你是不耐烦到就快爆发了，
说对了吧？哈哈！
可是拜托嘛，
男生不是都很愿意等女生的嘛？
没关系，
不能完全怪你，
每个人都会有过失的，
只是我希望，
你会比现在有更多的耐性，
别在那么急性子了好不好？
伤身的啊，xD

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Happy Mother's Day

First of all,

Mii, I love you,

Happy Mother's Day!!!

So sorry that this year I'm not able to celebrate this warm festival with u on the actual day,

as I have to sit for my last paper in the final exam,

but,

I'll replace the celebration just right after I come back to you.

Mii,

I know,

you are tired enough everyday,

started your work from early in the morning till the midnight,

just to earn more living for us,

you are now the head of the family,

after dad unable to work since he'd been suffered from sick.

I know,

you are the one who can't accept it as it's really happened all in a sudden,

you are so worry about 5 of us,

that are still in the growing stage,

added on the bad behavior and attitudes of dad,

you are totally helpless,

crying and crying all the time,

as we are still not mature enough,

to accompany you to go through the hardest moment.

Only the people in this situation who knows,

how hard are our life within these few years.

However,

as I promise to you,

I'll study really hard and try my best to earn more when I start to work,

so that you need not work so hard everyday,

just to earn more money for us,

and buy the things that you want without any worries.

I know,

you really like to shop so much,

but,

you cant be able to have those wants anytime as you like.

Thank God,

though we cant have what like others want,

as long as 5 of us have you,

that still love us so much,

try to fulfill our wants all the time,

and we had already suit with this kind of live,

I have to learn to appreciate what I own now.

Not forget to dad,

I know,

you are also very depress since you gt sick,

you can't accept those changes on you,

you always feel that you are useless in this family,

you are totally wrong,

you still my dad,

that love us so much,

though you always scold us,

I can only hope that,

you can have an optimistic thinking,

and don't always have such thinking that,

you are not important more,

due to your persistence,

it's so great that you are able to stand up from the failure,

I want a family that is full with happiness,

pray hard for it.

At last,

deeply pray for my daddy and mummy,

to have a healthy body,

and get rid from those sickness.

Again,

Mii,

Happy Mother's Day.

I'm so dumb that always hope I wont grow up so fast,

so that I wont leave u so fast,

enjoying the life like now,

pampering by you all the time.

Thank you for all that you'd given to me!!

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

=(

我的心情，

就像现在这颗小东东那样，

那么的失落，

一踏出考场，

心情就防如掉下了谷底里，

我没有心情，

很累，

不要问我为什么，

那么简单的题目，

都可以做错，

明明是把分数送到面前的，

现在我看应该送回给它们了吧...

所有的自信心，

也瞬间没了，

温习到够够，

就是那一点要把我抵毁，

数学啊数学，

难道我真的是上辈子欠了你好多，

今世要回来讨回？

怎么总是会做错的，

希望来世我不会再是个数学大笨蛋！

想睡，

但我睡不下，

上天保佑，

后天那两科不好再这样玩我啊，

我会怕的！！

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

FYP

昨晚睡得超不好，

睡了等于没有睡过，

Monday, March 14, 2011

生日快乐

对啦，
是你啦，亲爱的，
今天是你的22岁生日快乐，
时间过得好快，
我们都越长越大啦~
是滴，
同样的，
今年，
我们还是没能在一起，
帮对方庆祝，
你在一个遥远的天边，
而我却在这，
别说生日，
连平时都没得见，
没关系，
以后多得是时间，
就在去年，
惹事的我竟然也让你没得过一个难忘的生日，
没有惊喜，
也没有礼物，
还让你生气了好多天，
对不起，
明年不会再这样了，
答应你~
今年，
我很开心，
因为我一早就把礼物准备好了，
也想好要怎样送，
虽然礼物不是很吸引，
可是，
我想说，
从想要买什么到送出去，
我真的有花了很多心思，
去想要怎样才是最好，
并不是你所说的，
我是因为你生日而送给你，
准备礼物的时候想到你收到了应该会喜欢就觉得很高兴，
可是原来一早就被你拆穿了~
我知道，
论浪漫论创意我是真的远远比不上你，
可是请你相信我，
我真的是放尽心思的啊，
不是所谓的因为生日而送，
因为平时都没有什么很特别的东西，
送给你会觉得没意思，
希望你知道我的用心就好...
好啦贝，
别提不开心的了，
你今天就是个大忙人了啦，
我不会烦你的，哈哈！
希望你跟朋友的庆祝会超开心的，
然后呢，
我要祝你，
生日快乐，
身体健康，
顺利毕业，
快点回来啊，
哈哈哈！

生日快乐宝贝！

我爱你！！